Important note for Fathers / Mentors
Use the following questions to answer to your son and give him a view into your life and time of puberty. Then let him answer the questions.
Tell each other about the 'first love' that you experienced?
Have you struggled with sexual lustfulness? (abnormal interest in sexual things)
Could you talked to your dad or someone else about sexual issues and questions? Why or why not?
What did you do or think when you had your first 'wet dream' or ejaculation?
What are you going to do if someone else (a girl, boy or adult man or woman) suggest or want to see you naked?
What will you do if a (a girl, boy or adult man or woman) wants to do any sexual stuff with you?
Can you as father & son openly talk about sexual issues, questions and struggles in the future?