make regular & consistent appointments with your son
also use this information if you are a young man’s sponsor or mentor (if his father is not available to impart this to him)
start with private man to man talk time
about the presentations at school or other related information that’s important for young man to learn
the presentations at school will cover detail information about the dangers of sexual immorality (pornography & masturbation)
if you need to see the relevant topics and information covered in school, you can APPLY for the e-learning presentation project
use the following questions as guidelines
I as your father / mentor want to talk to you about man to man private sexual matters and I’m going to be honest with you about my history and teen years and I ask you to be honest as well as we go along with this regular talk-times!
Can we then agree with each other that this information will be kept private between us and that we will never use shared information against each other in any situation.
I (father or mentor) learned about sexuality and sexual stuff from ………., where was your first exposure to any kind of sexual talks, movies or information?
What did you learn about sexuality in School or the Presentations done at School?
What was new or interesting information?
How often do men experience normal sexual drives? (a desire for any kind of sexual release like masturbation) I (father or mentor) experienced it ……… , do you already experience this normal sexual drive?
What are positive and creative things that we as men can do to bring a non-sexual release to this extra energy we experience from a sexual drive?
Pray or Bless your son’s sexual development and protection against sexual immorality and choices he has to make in our sexualized culture!