make regular & consistent appointments with your son
also use this information if you are a young man’s sponsor or mentor (if his father is not available to impart this to him)
start with private man to man talk time
about the presentations at school or other related information that’s important for young man to learn about
the presentations at school will cover detail information about body development
Important note for Fathers / Mentors
Use the following questions to answer to your son and give him a view into your life and time of puberty. Then let him answer the questions.
What was the most dangerous adventure you planned ... but you didn't do?
What risky adventure did you do, and your parents don’t know about?
How do your friends influence you when they plan and talk about games, adventure, parties, movies, girls, sleep overs, going to clubs, bars etc.
How was, or is your relationship with girls, woman? (friendships, dating or more serious relationships)
Could you talk openly and easily to your dad about sexuality? Why or why not?
Have you ever been very angry to each other? Could you talk about it, make peace even if you disagree or is it still a sensitive situation?
Did you had any problems with Pimples? Do you have any advice for your son when he might have?
Where did you first hear, read, see, or come into contact with sexuality?
Tell me about something new or interesting that you learned at the school presentation?
How did you first experience sexual feelings in your body?
How do you feel about your body? Can you look in a mirror and respect yourself, accept and be OK with yourself?
Is there anything else you want to ask or talk about regarding this topic?