Important note for Fathers / Mentors

Use the following questions to answer to your son and give him a view into your life and time of puberty. Then let him answer the questions.

• Tell each other about the 'first love' that you experienced?

• Have you struggled with sexual lustfulness? (abnormal interest in sexual things)

• Could you talked to your dad or someone else about sexual issues and questions? Why or why not?

• What did you do or think when you had your first 'wet dream' or ejaculation?

• What are you going to do if someone else (a girl, boy or adult man or woman) suggest or want to see you naked?

• What will you do if a (a girl, boy or adult man or woman) wants to do any sexual stuff with you?

• Can you as father & son openly talk about sexual issues, questions and struggles in the future?