What's POSITIVE about our STRONG sexual drive?
Testosterone is responsible for a sexual drive in men and woman
(Woman produce an amount of Testosterone from Estrogen, this also gives them a sexual drive)
a sexual drive is that desire for you as a man to engage in any kind of sexual pleasure until you reach an orgasm (ejaculate semen). every young and older men will experience a sexual drive every 48 to 72 hours (2 to 3 days)
Your sexual drive is not a shameful desire. Don’t ever feel guilty when you experience it. Rather celebrate manhood and that you are capable to feel sexual arousal. Testosterone is NOT ONLY responsible for a sexual drive but also for the following:
Your sexual drive might be more regular that every 48 hours. It might be normal for you as an exception. If this is you, just make sure that regular acting out with pornobation, masturbation and other sexual engagement might have conformed your body’s normal sexual drive to escalate in frequency by your own demand for sexual pleasure and acting out. This might have changed your sexual drive to abnormal. See some practical advice on this issue HERE
The much needed and positive capacity your sexual drive, derived from Testosterone gives you!
a DRIVE FORCE to complete something.
AGRESSIVENESS to protect and be competitive.
CREATIVITY to bring into reality what you see or build in your imagination.
Ability to CONCENTRATE for longer periods of time on something of interest.
Ability to FOCUS on one specific subject without being distracted every few minutes.
ENDURENCE to start and finalize any project or task.
Develop strong and dense SKELETAL STRUCTURE.
Develop and build STRONG MUSCLES.
So, when is the most important period in your life as a young man to be fully alert, attentive and aware of getting your future figured out.
It is at ages 16 to 25 when most men’s Testosterone / Sexual drive peek at its highest levels. It is also the age when you as young man need to engage in building your dream of what you want to become, what occupation or calling you want to follow.
Don’t engage and use your sexual drive for sexual immorality.
Now is the time to engage and successfully ESTABLISH your future.
You need all of the above positive effects and capacities your Testosterone can give you to be successful in establishing and setting a path for your future.
This is the best time of your life to use your sexual drive’s capacity to the fullest potential. Don’t spent it on sexual acting out and compromising your own abilities that God has build into you as a man.
Sexual arousal is when your sexual drive makes you sensitive for touch or pressure around your genitals and you can feel your penis filling with blood that leads to an erection. You body will even have this same sexual arousal and reaction only by thinking about sexual acting out or past experiences. This reaction from your body and genitals are normal and does not mean that you are a sexual pervert or a sexual lustful sinner. This is normal for all men to experience regular sexual arousal. You need to pay attention to this issue of thoughts, fantasies or daydreams. If it’s filled with sexual lustful thoughts, it will always lead you to acting out sexually. Our fantasy and imagination world must be redeemed from this lustful images, memories and experiences so that we won’t be controlled by it. It’s like a slave master always dragging you to what you don’t want to do…
An erection is when your penis enlarges and gets hard when blood flows into it through arteries but the blood flow gets restricted by veins inside the penis so that the accumulation of blood increase the size and the length of the penis.
Ejaculation is when you experience sexual pleasure in and around your genitals and reach a sexual climax. Semen is then released out of your penis through multiple contractions of the prostate gland and other muscles inside the groin area. Thus (about 8 to 16 contractions) forces semen out of the penis.
Semen is the liquid that contain sperm cells. Semen is the actual fluid that a man ejaculate from his penis and it is a combination of about 65-75% seminal fluid, (nutrients and proteins) 25-30% prostate fluid, (liquid excretion from the prostate) 1-5% Cowper’s Gland fluid (detergent, anti bacterial and lubricant) and only about 1-2% sperm cells.